Re: UNREGISTERED COMPETITIONS: WHAT ARE THEY?
06 Март 2008 г. 15:39
Hello everyone, just a few reflection on this thread, make yourselves a cup of coffee this may be a long one :
No Question that IDSF can introduce own Rules
No Question, IDSF members may follow the Rules, or not
No Question, CADA decided to support the Rules
No Question, these Rules therefore apply to CADA and to OADA
It is IDSF's, CADA's right. You do not like it, ask OADA, CADA otherwise, lobby, put your ideas, suggestion to a vote, attend the annual meetings, actively participate.
You and I can toss this argument back and forth, we need to hear from someone in the authority.
Will we ?
As long as the tenacious supporters of WDC and CDDSC such as Sambatogo aim and use insults and intimidation at new visitors interested-to-offer-their-views, calling them Idiots, I doubt the CADA voluteers will waset time, and should stoop down to this gutter-level name calling discussion.
Sambatogo - who ever "they" represents had earlier posted some interesting posts. He "they" have interesting information worthy consideration.
It is too bad he spoiled it.
Next time, Sambatogo would be advised to check first and to receive an approval from his spouse. If Sambatogo becomes frustrated with the obvious and repeated support for CADA in this thread "they" would be wise to back off rather than repeating "their" dislike for CADA, stopping just short of naming the CADA president.
Sambatogo requested an answer to questions and immediately predicted there would be no answer. As a professional in the field I expected this denial. Long ago I tried to help another and quite knowledgeable contributor called Polkadancer. Apparently she has found her calling and moved on.
In psychology this is dealt with in the field of denial.
What the experts who write medical text book say is that it does not matter what evidence is offered , if the receiver is not open minded, ready and prepared to accept the information he will simply deny receiving it and likely would resort to denial or to deflection, striking back or deflecting at someone else.
If you need a few minutes of counceling, I am here to listen. I sense a feeling of loss, injustice and jelousy and a deep feeling of angre. It is perfectly natural to have such feelings. The more you pick and poke and remind yourself of the loss the deeper the problem in a long run. Do nor revisit the unpleasand, it as if you poked again and again a dog's poop. Let it be, it will smell bed again the more you come back and poke it. ( I use this analogy when dealing with troubled children, and they understand the concept well ).
May I suggest as a friend, that you :
1. establish your own identity and stop hiding behind " we" and "us" and in that way accept the responsibility for your own actions.
2. read and consider what others say. Not everything will be correct, and you may disagree. It is your right, and you have a choice. When a majority of people agree, please accept the democratic principal and do not get angry. You still may be right, but if it came to a vote, would you win ? Not against the majority.
It is good you take a firm stand and support what you believe in, but it is not good and not healthy for you to strike, insult and take away from those who believe in something else. I sense you are a mature person with adeep sense of conviction, and you should know better than insult on line because you can never take it back, and your sorry's and appologies will come too late.
While you challenge Ad Wiz, lut let me try, as a friend, OK ?
What benifit is it to anyone to have restrictions, threats and bans in Dancesport?
This was already answered and examples were provided from other official sports.
And for what reason?
This was also explained. It is the right of organisations/emloyers/governments/ even a small business enterprise, such as a corner store to have Policies, Rules Restrictions. You would not want your spouse to purchase, prepare and feed you a fish which started to decompose, because the store had no rule and no restriction on the sale of 'out-of-date product', would you ?
These are important questions that are never answered by CADA or their supporters like yourself. Can there ever be a satisfactory answer, or even any answer?. Maybe you have the answer Ad Wiz?
I have tried to explained earlier, that we cannot, and it is unfortunate, expect an answer from CADA officials, who would not have a luxury of hiding under name "Sambatogo" and "we" and "us" as long as they may be called Idiots and possibly worse.
I believe that we would have a better channce to receive CADA officila response if the requestors, such as you, were in the more receptive mode, and as Judge Judy says, had their listening ears on.
Please do not direct your negative energy towards me, try disperse and get rid of the negativity. We are just talking trying to help one another, not call one another bad names. And if you are nor ready to accept help, it is your choice and we all respect it.
We expect that these questions will be as usual, nanswered.
You see, it does not take Ad Wiz to answer, the answers were right in front of you. There was no need to label AdWiz a CADA supporter.
Just because I support that 1+1=2 it does not make me a mathematician.
Just because I disagree with Sambatogo it does not make me your enemy, on the contrary, and as I have written, I consider myself your friend.
Just because I or AdWiz agree that WDC and CDDSC need show own initiative does not mean we are for or aginst them, and in a similar way our agreement or disagreement with IDSF or CADA does not make us their supporters, but it does not mean we are not. These are completely and mutualy independent of each other.
I suggest changing a name and starting with a clean slate.
Give it a thought Sambatogo, and come back with your own unique identity, or why on under Sambatogo Ltd. ?
Good luck and do not be afraid to put on a happy face. Situation is not as gloomy as you see it and I am sure CDDSC will do OK without your help and without their negative propaganda against those who compete with them for members.
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